tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2746376276067114907.post5915913982473483921..comments2023-08-14T08:14:13.521-04:00Comments on The Hexad of Awesome: So, How's Life?CassieGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11846117297539617084noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2746376276067114907.post-60396918859849581782013-06-23T17:48:25.555-04:002013-06-23T17:48:25.555-04:00I agree with Heidi. It sounds to me like he's ...I agree with Heidi. It sounds to me like he's purposefully trying to put distance between you because it's just easier for him to deal with the situation that way. Which sucks a lot, and is immature and selfish on his part, but the way that he is acting currently should not be a reflection of or on you. <br /><br />Love and hugs. Hang in there, lovely. CassieGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11846117297539617084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2746376276067114907.post-72248679442153311102013-06-23T12:54:00.667-04:002013-06-23T12:54:00.667-04:00My guess on Matt is that the relationship between ...My guess on Matt is that the relationship between the two of you is hard on him as well, and by telling you what he did, he's trying to distance himself to help himself deal with it. It doesn't make what he did any less hurtful or selfish, but I don't think your view of the relationship was a lie. Our emotions are real, even if the other person doesn't feel it (which I'm sure he did). The happiness you felt was real, and while I agree your trust issues are justified, I'd be extremely saddened for you to close yourself off from having that happiness again. There's a lot of immature guys out there who seek to distance themselves from their significant other rather than work through the hard times together. Somewhere out there is a gem who thinks you're just as beautiful and wonderful as the rest of us girls do and is willing to fight for you. Unfortunately, there's a lot of idiots out there giving him a bad name. I'm sorry things are sucking right now, but you know I'm always available if you want to talk. We could skype watch a movie together if you want! :)<br /><br />I hope the puppies all get better, and that things start looking more up.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05735251772801420677noreply@blogger.com